" Please put this on your status if you know or love someone who is gay. My wishes that people will understand that being gay is neither a disease nor a choice - people who are gay are not looking for a cure, but for acceptance and equal rights. 93% won't copy and paste this. Will you ...make it your status for at least ...one hour? I will ...for sure! ♥♥♥ "
-- posted by A loving family member for their love ones (a gay: son/daughter/uncle/aunt/cousin/nephew/niece)
Aren't such words very comforting to hear it from your love ones?...
But, does it fair enough for a gay to hurts their love ones?
Nobody would want such pain in this life. Somehow, it is very sad in some point. Neither they can change it even if they wish a million times. No shame for who your are, being gay is depressive enough to be ashamed.
Doesn't matter if the world is scrutinise a person for being gay, as long his/her family accepted the way he/she is. These words will mean the world to them.
Sad as it is may, but its not a choice to make. Suffering as it is very painful, but its not a disease to cure. At least with loves of love ones will ease the pain of battling their unnatural existence.
They are no different from the rest of us. They seeks the same love that we seeks. They have the same responsibilities just like us. They even share the same bloodline that came from same root. But what went wrong wasn't their faults. Nor hypocrisy can change how they really feel inside. Just the way you and I feels. They would feel the same. They are not such defects that can be repair. They are not a freak simply because of their nature. Just they are different in preferences.
The bottom line is acceptance for who they are, not a judgment from us. Everyone deserve an equal love. World would be better without individual judgments. Let He who created us to have the final say. When its time, He will judge, but not us to mark these fellow beings.
Love is always the best gift you could share with everyone.